to a girl named Nurul ain. ^_^ and other muslimat
These are advices for myself and other muslimat:
some of muslimats busy searching for soleh guy to be their husband but they forget that their destiny(including their mate) already written since we are 4months in our mama's womb. and we as a muslimat shud try harder to be solehah rather than to try harder to search for soleh guy as Allah had promise us in our holy Quran that "good guy is for a good woman and vice versa".Allah's promises are always true and no doubt about that.
we shud never stop praying as doa is our weapon but sometimes Allah not grant our doa not because He dont listen to us.But he wants to give us big reward at mashsyar later.Just be patient and never stop praying.As Allah's slave we must feel very humble towards Allah.
Allah dont test us if we are not able to face it.I,as a muslim of cos i hav been tested again and again and alhamdulillah i able to go tru them with Allah's help.Sometimes i feel disappointed and frustrated ( not suppose to be like this..@_@ haishhh not gudd..not gudd...) why Allah give me difficulties and why i am the one who always suffer.But now,after i bcome more mature,i finally realize,that all the difficulties and obstacles make me become a better muslim and finally i am so thankful to Allah,praise Allah more and glorify him.
Before this,i always confused whether islam forbid "couple" or not.But some of my friends told me that if we have a boyfriend who is islamic kind of person and can guide us..it shud be ok and i as a human being made a mistake..i agreed about that T_T . .but one day..i heard a sermon from ustaz explained that.."mixing halal and haram ..become haram" and similar with "couple" thing i guess.Advising your girlfriend to pray..to cover her head=halal..but the forbidden relationship between the 2 of them is haram .so the "couple" is haram and no doubt about that.
now..i am so afraid that i will fall in love before marriage.huhu..i em afraid that Allah will get angry with me and my life will become miserable.astaghfirullah.T_T ...it is a lie if i say i dont have any feeling watching my rumate date her bf..or when she gets flowers or etc..it is easy to do what is forbidden rather than to do what Allah like..and when any uncomfortable feeling approach me...i make my sujud to him...embrace him...and pray...ya Allah let me be the one who love you...rasullulah moreee than i love this world..amin...
i write this so that i dont forget my mission why i signed up with baitulmuslim..i write this not becoz to show any pride..As pride is just for Allah..
i em just a girl who seeking for Allah's forgiveness and i hope Allah will accept my taubat for all my sins...
wassalam..
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salam ain...touching when i read tru ur writting...its contain a lot of ur secrets which only u and ALLAH knowing what u kept inside ur heart...it doesn't matter if we're looking for a nice and soleh guy as we're take it as effort..so gud luck dear...
waalaikum salam..tenkiu so much for the comment.really appreciate it.btw,as an "old teen " i also sometimes face an adolescent crisis(for example...low motivation and self-esteem....want attention whether from friends or family..want to be popular and etc..) that always occur to other teen.but it will be better in time insyaAllah when someone learn from their experience. experience is the best teacher..experience teaches slowly and at the cost of mistakes..experience is a silent teacher. :D
salam sisters..
hey i like your writing.it's very true that sometimes we're buzying ourselves with the endless search for the mr.right at the same time having no idea at all of what a Ms.Right should be.it's so noble of you to work hard not to fall in love before marriage but im just wondering how it would be like to marry a man you don't have a crush on.yeah!it's complicated.i know.sorta dilemma as well but i pray that ALLAH will grant your wish not to involve in such forbidden thing and so that i'll be strong enough to follow your step.
yes you can't deny the fitrah of being. we like attention we crave to love and the same time being loved and cared for.i feel the same too.once i loved a guy and he in return loved me too.we expressed our feeling mainly in words(poorly those time i failed to realized what does it mean by spending rm 400/month for sms&calling).we shared words of affection swear an oath to be at each other's side till the day of our last breath.words brought us together and neither me nor him knew that eventually words spared us apart.we used to swear to love but what's left then were just swear words